Please help don't know what to do?

First of all...... listen carefully now ey..... NEVER EVER let anyone tell you that you are lazy and a bad person or that you are not worth the ground that you tread on. That is not their judgement to make. And second of all, in afrikaan have a sying..... "haal eers die balk uit jou eie oog voor jy die splinter in iemand anders se oog raaksien" it means, dont judge isf you have a secret or fault of your own. "Forcing" you, by being like he is now, to go to your scan alone is selfish and childish. How old is this man, moving in with his parents? Don't let this make you anymore upset than you are, and try to relax now. I am sure that all of us on this site will be with you in spirit anyway. Strongs for tomorrow!!!